We live from our set of values. Like grooves on a record, after enough spins, we struggle to imagine how anyone could live by another song—another code.
In relationships, both people are playing their own record. This difference in rhythm can either heal us or break us.
We often think, if only my partner understood how I operate, we’d get along better.
But it’s precisely this polarity that fuels intimacy.
Read MoreWe often make life harder than it has to be. We self-sabotage healthy choices and give energy to unhealthy choices—sometimes unknowingly but sometimes, we’ve got a clue. We trap ourselves in invisible cages.
| You might know you need to put up a boundary but feel like you can’t.
| You might meet a healthy partner but spend energy around an unhealthy one.
| You might have potential in an area but put off pursuing it.
Easy choices = a hard life. Hard choices = an easy life.
Read MoreThese days, relationships are more nuanced than ever. With nuances come role confusion, meaning, people just don’t know what to do in situations.
Who initiates? Who pays? Who calls back? Or is it a text? Perhaps a gif? Do you go to a higher level of physical intimacy if you like someone…or do you go to a lower level of physical intimacy because the relationship is special?
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